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After 25 years in ministry, below are some of the things I know for sure about; God  God is faithful – he can be trusted.  God is loving - he cares deeply and personally about his people.  God is fun-loving – he has a great sense of human. He likes to laugh and...

I remember that day like yesterday… it was the early hours of Saturday, May 19, 1990… it was at the Airport Hotel in Lagos, Nigeria… it was after an all-night Deliverance program hosted by Full Gospel Business Men’s Fellowship and led by the late Dr. Ike Ibeneme…...

Some people find the idea of “Spirit or Faith Driven Success" to be preposterous, ludicrous and downright fanatical! But the TRUTH be told; TOTAL success is NOT just a function of hard work, sound financial planning and great marketing/sales strategy… Spiritual...

Lesson 5: KNOW, LIKE & TRUST In business, it is said that people do business with those they KNOW, LIKE and TRUST! I think thta this principle is applicable not only to business relationships but marriage relationships as well... To Be Continued...

Lesson 4: EQUITY This is the epiphany that I came to after my failed marriage; In a marriage relationship, there is NO head and there is NO tail - BOTH genders are equal, BOTH are different sides of the SAME coin! Unfortunately, this was another truth I realized after...

Lesson 3: INDIVIDUALITY While I believe in the Biblical notion that, in marriage, the “two become one”, one of the major lessons that I learned from my failed marriage is that the two should retain their INDIVIDUALITY. No one partner should feel compelled to give up...

Lesson 2: ATTRACTION The question I explored yesterday was; Do Opposites Attract?! And I responded by saying that "NO" opposites don't attract, mutual AGREEMENT is required. The "Power of Agreement" in the building of a successful marriage was one of the first lessons...

Lesson 1:- A – AGREEMENT I am NOT sure I agree any longer with the saying that opposites attract. The Bible says that; “two can NOT walk together except they be agreed ‘- Amos 3 v 3. While you and your partner don’t have to be IDENTICAL, you MUST be in AGREEMENT about...

I recently read my colleague and friend, Lorna Little’s Memoir titled; “Mums the Word”, and was inspired by her courage and vulnerability in sharing some dark secret about her life and childhood. It reinforced my resolve, since my divorce in 2012, to live more...

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